禮節(jié)美語(yǔ)lesson 121 Cross-Cultural Sensitivity 2

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Jim和Emily是一家跨國(guó)公司從中國(guó)聘用的新雇員，公司人事部的Paula對(duì)他們進(jìn)行文化差異的培訓(xùn)。Emily說(shuō)，

E: I know that we will be expected to chat and make small talk with our customers, but I'm worried I'm going to put my foot in my mouth.

P: There are a couple of topics that are considered "no-nos" in Western culture. It's best to avoid discussions on politics, religion and money.

J: Why is religion a sensitive topic?

聊天兒，to chat, 也可以說(shuō)to make small talk. Emily擔(dān)心跟客戶聊天的時(shí)候會(huì)to put my foot in my mouth, 意思是說(shuō)話不得體，講錯(cuò)話。Paul說(shuō)，在西方文化中，確實(shí)有一些話題是"no-nos"最好不要涉及的領(lǐng)域，包括政治、宗教和金錢。宗教為什么是敏感話題？

P: Well, there are a lot of religions and each one thinks very differently. Overall, it's an area that could cause trouble; so it's best to stay away from it.

J: When I visited Italy last year, I noticed a sign at a church asking people to remove their hats. Why is this necessary?

P: In some religious centers it's considered impolite to wear hats. Many Western people also think you should remove your hat when dining or in a more formal setting.

Paul解釋說(shuō)，不同宗教信仰的人，如果話不投機(jī)，就很容易出問(wèn)題。So it's best to stay away from it，所以最好遠(yuǎn)離這個(gè)話題。 Jim問(wèn)，為什么意大利有的教堂要大家摘掉帽子。Paula解釋說(shuō)，某些宗教認(rèn)為戴帽子很不禮貌，It's considered impolite to wear hats, 而且在西方，正式場(chǎng)合和飯局一般都要把帽子摘下來(lái)。

J: You said money is off-limits as well. Can you explain?

P: In some parts of Asia, discussing salary amounts or how much you paid for something is an acceptable conversation topic, but in the West, people get very uncomfortable when discussing money.

E: That makes sense. Money can be a tricky subject.

金錢也是off-limits，禁區(qū)。在亞洲某些地方，工資收入可以是聊天的話題，但是在西方，問(wèn)別人賺多少錢，往往會(huì)讓人覺(jué)得不舒服。所以說(shuō)，money can be a tricky subject.

P: Ok...a couple more important points: In some Asian societies, when you meet someone and you notice they have put on weight, you might say "Hey! You've gained weight!" But in the West, it's almost never appropriate to comment on someone's appearance.

J: But why? It's not a criticism; it's just an observation.

P: In the West it is viewed as a criticism. So don't comment on age or weight.

E: I think it's best to simply say, "You look well."

P: Yes....that would be perfect. Thank you all for your attention and we will meet again next week.

還有一點(diǎn)至關(guān)重要，見(jiàn)面千萬(wàn)別說(shuō)，“你發(fā)福了！” That's a no-no. 西方人幾乎從來(lái)不討論別人的外表，還有年齡！Don't comment on age or weight.