日常英語 約會對象在一次約會后突然消失

如果一個人和你約會后就不見蹤影，可能有多方面原因，并不是因為你不夠好。

Men and women come in several behavioural layers. As such, one might not feel connected to his/her date regardless of how beautiful and intelligent the person may appear.

每個人的行為都很復(fù)雜，有時會讓人捉摸不透。因此，無論約會對象看起來多美麗、多聰明，有時你可能仍會感到與他/她之間有些距離感。

Getting a call back is not entirely dependent on how well the date goes. A date can go sour and afterward, the person would reach out. Also, it could go well and you get ghosted.

并不是說約會順利對方就會給你回電話?？赡芗s會不太順利，對方事后仍主動聯(lián)系你；也有可能進(jìn)展順利，你卻被甩了。

Ghosting, after a date, is based on different reasons and some far from how the date turns out. However, getting ghosted is not a gender-specific experience, men get ghosted just as women do after a date. Although, it is arguable that women get ghosted more than men, after a date.

約會對象在一次約會后突然消失，原因多種多樣，有些原因甚至與約會進(jìn)展毫不相關(guān)，與性別也同樣不相關(guān)。約會后女性可能會被甩，男性也可能會。但總的來看，女性在約會后被甩的次數(shù)比男性多。

“被人甩”可能會讓你讓感到生氣、難過，也可能讓你感到困惑。你開始自我懷疑：我做錯了什么嗎？我說錯了什么嗎？我看起來不夠好嗎？

其實，正是因為你和約會對象沒有溝通交流，所以你才不知道自己為什么會被甩。就算你自以為約會進(jìn)行得很順利，你也會覺得，發(fā)短信或打電話說這些實在難以啟齒，對吧？

According to Natalie Jones, a doctor of psychology, someone's reason for ghosting you has little to do with you. She suggests that it could be a result of attachment issues, emotional level, and several more.

心理學(xué)博士娜塔麗·瓊斯說，有人把你甩了這事與你自身沒太大關(guān)系。她說，這可能是因為愛慕、個人情緒或其他因素。