新學(xué)期夸娃別再用“You are very clever”，試試這15種說法！

新的學(xué)期開始了。當(dāng)孩子表現(xiàn)優(yōu)異的時候，家長一般都會表揚(yáng)孩子，鼓勵孩子，希望孩子可以更加優(yōu)秀和聰明?？墒呛芏嗉议L只會一個勁的夸孩子“你真聰明”、“你真棒”，并沒有夸到點(diǎn)上。今天給大家分享的這15句話，來自斯坦福大學(xué)教授Carol Dweck多年的研究總結(jié)，囊括了孩子日常行為的方方面面。

1.你很努力啊!

—— 表揚(yáng)努力

You tried really hard on that.

2.盡管很難，但你一直沒有放棄。

—— 表揚(yáng)堅毅

You never gave up, even when it was hard.

3.你做事情的態(tài)度非常不錯。

——表揚(yáng)態(tài)度

You have such a positive attitude.

4.你在______上進(jìn)步了很多!

——表揚(yáng)細(xì)節(jié)

You have really improved on ______.

5.這個方法真有新意!

——表揚(yáng)創(chuàng)意

What a creative solution to that problem!

6.你和小伙伴們合作得真棒!

——表揚(yáng)合作精神

You work very well with your classmates.

7.這件事情你負(fù)責(zé)得很好!

——表揚(yáng)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)力

I love how you took ownership of that!

8.你一點(diǎn)都不怕困難，太難得了!

——表揚(yáng)勇氣

You are not afraid of a challenge! I like that!

9.你幫_____完成了她的任務(wù)，真不錯!

——表揚(yáng)熱心

You did a great job of helping ___with her assignment.

10.你把自己的房間/書收拾整理得真好。

——表揚(yáng)責(zé)任心和條理性

You have taken great care of your room/books.

11.我相信你，因?yàn)開_____。

—— 表揚(yáng)信用

I know I can trust you because ______.

12.你今天參加活動時表現(xiàn)得很好!

——表揚(yáng)參與

You did a great job of participating today!

13.你很重視別人的意見，這點(diǎn)做得非常好。

——表揚(yáng)開放虛心的態(tài)度

It is so nice that you value other people’s opinions.

14.真高興你做出這樣的選擇。

——表揚(yáng)選擇

I am so proud that you made that choice.

15.你記得_____!想得真棒!

——表揚(yáng)細(xì)心

You remembered to ____! Great thinking!