近半數(shù)中國(guó)父母在和孩子說話時(shí)玩手機(jī)

Almost half of Chinese parents play with their mobile phones while talking with their children, according to a new survey.

一項(xiàng)新的調(diào)查顯示，近一半的中國(guó)家長(zhǎng)在和孩子聊天時(shí)玩手機(jī)。

The survey of 4,170 primary and middle school students in six cities was conducted by China Youth and Children Research Center, New Channel Family Education Research Institute and New Family Education Research Institute.

這項(xiàng)針對(duì)六個(gè)城市的4170名中小學(xué)生的調(diào)查，是由中國(guó)青少年研究中心、新航道家庭教育研究院、新家庭教育研究院聯(lián)合開展的。

It found that 8 percent of parents often play with their mobile phones when talking with their children and 40 percent sometimes pick up their phones when communicating with them.

調(diào)查發(fā)現(xiàn)，在與孩子交談時(shí)，8%的家長(zhǎng)會(huì)經(jīng)常使用手機(jī)，而40%的家長(zhǎng)會(huì)在與孩子交流時(shí)拿起手機(jī)。

More than 40 percent of children said their parents do not pay enough attention to them while they are talking, according to the survey.

根據(jù)該調(diào)查，超過40%的孩子表示，父母在他們說話的時(shí)候沒有給予他們足夠的關(guān)注。

The top five topics in parent-student communication are study, what happened in school, interests and hobbies, friends, and the child's future.

家長(zhǎng)與孩子交流的前五個(gè)話題是學(xué)習(xí)、學(xué)校里發(fā)生了什么、興趣愛好、朋友以及孩子的未來。

Sun Hongyan, from the China Youth and Children Research Center, said interaction between parents and children has changed a great deal in the digital age and the use of electronic devices has become one of the main reasons for parent-child conflicts.

中國(guó)青少年研究中心的孫紅艷稱，在數(shù)字時(shí)代，父母和孩子之間的互動(dòng)已經(jīng)發(fā)生了很大的變化，電子設(shè)備的使用已經(jīng)成為父母和孩子沖突的主要原因之一。

Children often resort to the internet to talk to others when they do not have enough communication with their parents, she said, advising parents to treat children in an equal and sincere manner, listen to them, respect them and maintain eye contact while talking.

她表示，當(dāng)孩子們與父母沒有足夠的交流時(shí)，他們會(huì)經(jīng)常求助于互聯(lián)網(wǎng)與他人交談。孫紅艷建議父母在交談時(shí)應(yīng)以平等和真誠(chéng)的態(tài)度對(duì)待孩子，傾聽他們的心聲，尊重他們，并保持眼神交流。