知乎精選：情商高的人都有哪些特點(diǎn)？

What Are Characteristics of Highly Emotionally Intelligent People?

高情商的人有哪些特點(diǎn)?

獲得416好評(píng)的回答@Tillman Huett-Lassman

Here are the 3 main characteristics of high EQ people:

情商高的人有三個(gè)主要特點(diǎn)：

They actually listen.

他們真的會(huì)認(rèn)真聽你講話。

They are emotionally vulnerable.

他們情感脆弱。

They are agreeable and easy going.

他們平易近人，好相處。

獲得138好評(píng)的回答@Andrew Wang

High EQ people listen to and validate other people’s feelings without judgment.

 

高情商的人善于傾聽，并且能不帶偏見地理解他人的感受。

Put yourself in the other person’s shoes.

站在對(duì)方的角度看問題。

Ask thoughtful questions

問一些體貼的問題 。

Think what pieces of missing information might help the other person.

會(huì)去思考有哪些遺漏的信息能夠幫助到對(duì)方。

Show vulnerability

會(huì)顯露出自己的脆弱。

獲得1.9k好評(píng)的回答@Sascha Sim

You buy people the perfect presents.

你會(huì)給他人買最完美的禮物。

You can make anyone believe that you are in love with them.

你會(huì)讓每個(gè)人相信你真的愛他們。

You are able to rephrase sentences to project the right emotion or environment.

你能夠該述一些話準(zhǔn)確表達(dá)情感或者情境。

You understand another person better than they do themselves.

你比其他人更了解他們自己。