Two women were chatting in a room, one asked,“How is everything going with your son?”“Oh, don't even mention it, what a huge misfortune!”The woman sighed,“He is poor enough, and married an extraordinariIy lazy daughter-in-law. She doesn't cook, not clean the room, and not look after the children except sleeping all the time.It was my son who brings breakfast to her bed.”
“How about your daughter?”
“She might be lucky.”woman smiled.
“She married a good husband who doesn't allow her to do the housework, and who handle everything all alone. The housework includes cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after the children.What's more, he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.”
Considering the same situation, when we look at it from“my”perspective, it will have a different mentaIity.
Stand to looking at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think of a lot of things as not the case, you can have a greater tolerance, will have more love.
有兩個(gè)女人在屋里聊天,其中一個(gè)問(wèn)道:“你兒子還好吧?”“別提了,真是不幸哦!”這個(gè)婦人嘆息道,“他真是夠可憐的,娶了個(gè)媳婦懶得要命。她不做飯、不收拾屋子、不帶孩子,整天就是睡覺(jué),我兒子還要把早餐端到她的床邊!”
“那你女兒呢?”
“她命不錯(cuò)。”婦人滿臉笑容。
“她嫁了一個(gè)不錯(cuò)的丈夫,不讓她做家務(wù),他一手包辦,煮飯、洗衣、掃地、帶孩子,每天早上還把早點(diǎn)端到我女兒的床邊!”
試想同樣的狀況,但是當(dāng)我們從自己的角度去看時(shí),就會(huì)產(chǎn)生不同的心態(tài)。
站在別人的立場(chǎng)看一看,或從對(duì)方的角度想一想,很多事就不一樣了,你可以有更多的包容,也會(huì)有更多的愛(ài)。