你不應(yīng)該與同事分享的事情

你不應(yīng)該與同事分享的事情

Disclosing your salary, judging your incompetent coworkers, or revealing you are about to quit... are things you should never do at work.

透露你的薪水,抱怨你的無(wú)能的同事,或揭示你要辭職…是你不應(yīng)該做的事。

You cannot build good working relationships without being open to colleagues. However, you need to skillfully choose what - and what not to share. Because revealing things you shouldn't reveal can ruin your career.

如果不向同事敞開(kāi)心扉，你就無(wú)法建立良好的工作關(guān)系。然而,你需要巧妙地選擇——而不是分享。因?yàn)槟悴粦?yīng)該暴露的事情透露后會(huì)毀了你的事業(yè)。

1. You hate your job

你討厭你的工作

Nobody wants to hear you lament how much you hate your job. That shows you are a negative person, not a good member of the team, and will decrease your morale.

沒(méi)有人愿意聽(tīng)你抱怨你討厭你的工作。說(shuō)明你是一個(gè)消極的人,不是一個(gè)好的團(tuán)隊(duì)成員,將會(huì)降低團(tuán)隊(duì)的士氣。

The boss will be very quick to find out who the culprit is down to and also know that there are always enthusiastic candidates waiting outside.

老板將很快找到罪魁禍?zhǔn)资钦l(shuí),也知道總有熱情的候選人外面等候。

2. You think someone is incompetent

你認(rèn)為某人很無(wú)能

There are always weak people at work, and usually everyone knows who it is. If you can't help them improve or don't have the power to fire them, there's wrong with "gossiping" about their weaknesses.

在工作中總有相對(duì)較弱的人,通常每個(gè)人都知道他是誰(shuí)。如果你不能幫助他們改善或沒(méi)有解雇他們的權(quán)力,就不要“閑聊”對(duì)他們的弱點(diǎn)。

Gossiping about your coworkers' weaknesses makes your image worse.

八卦你同事的弱點(diǎn)讓你的形象更糟。

3. The amount of money you earn

你的薪水

Parents may want to hear about how much money you make each month. But sharing that at work is just a nuisance. Salary for employees is never completely fair. So the fact that you disclose your salary to your coworkers will make them compare.

父母可能希望聽(tīng)到你每個(gè)月賺多少錢。但在工作中分享只是一個(gè)麻煩。員工的工資從來(lái)都不是完全公平的。所以你向你的同事透露你的薪水會(huì)讓他們比較。

As soon as people know about your salary, everything you do is weighed against that income.

一旦知道了你的薪水，你所做的每件事都會(huì)被拿來(lái)和你的收入作比較。

4. You don't care about other people's business

你不關(guān)心別人的事

Excellent employees always want the group to succeed, not just themselves. Regardless of your actual motivations (some often work for money), announcing selfish goals will never help you achieve it.

優(yōu)秀的員工總是希望集團(tuán)成功,不僅僅是自己。不管你的實(shí)際動(dòng)機(jī)是什么(有些人工作往往是為了錢)，自私的目標(biāo)永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)實(shí)現(xiàn)。

5. Excessive jokes

過(guò)度的笑話

Be careful what you say and who you imply. Insulting jokes will make others feel terrible and make you very bad.

小心你說(shuō)的話，不要暗示誰(shuí)。侮辱性的笑話會(huì)讓別人感覺(jué)很糟糕，也會(huì)讓你很糟糕。

When you want to joke with someone, consider its suitability to how close you are to that person. If you feel that they might be hurt by your joke, it's best not to say it.

當(dāng)你想和某人開(kāi)玩笑時(shí)，考慮一下你和那個(gè)人的關(guān)系有多親密。如果你覺(jué)得他們可能會(huì)被你的笑話傷害，最好就不要說(shuō)。

6. You are looking for a new job

你正在尋找一份新工作

Sharing that you are looking for a job has the same consequences as over-joking. When you reveal that you are about to quit your job, you will suddenly become a waste of other people's time. You may also not be able to find a new job, so it's best to wait until you find one before sharing with everyone.

告訴別人你正在找工作和過(guò)度開(kāi)玩笑的后果是一樣的。當(dāng)你透露你要辭職的時(shí)候，你會(huì)突然變成一個(gè)浪費(fèi)別人時(shí)間的人。你也可能找不到一份新工作，所以最好等你找到了一個(gè)，再和別人分享。