Quora網(wǎng)友分享輕生前神奇經(jīng)歷：未來(lái)妻子的一通電話救了我

Once upon a time I was 13 at a summer camp and the prettiest girl I'd ever seen walked right up to me and said “black is a good color on you.” No idea why. We chatted and became friends, exchanged AIM screen names and stayed in touch for a while.

我13歲那一年參加夏令營(yíng)，遇到一個(gè)女孩，她是我見過(guò)最可愛的女生。她徑直向我走來(lái)，毫無(wú)緣由地說(shuō)“你穿黑色很好看”。我們交談起來(lái)，并成了朋友，互相交換了網(wǎng)名，有段時(shí)間一直保持聯(lián)系。

We fell off each others’ radar some time in high school, but I can promise you that not a day went by that I didn't think about that girl. Even now I'm not sure I can say why - something about her just stayed with me.

高中某個(gè)時(shí)候起，我們失去了聯(lián)系，但是我可以保證，我沒有一天不在想她。即使是現(xiàn)在，我也說(shuō)不清為什么，她的影子卻一直縈繞在我腦海。

Somewhere between 5 and 10 seconds before I would have committed suicide, my phone rang. I checked the caller ID - I couldn't die not knowing. It was a number I didn't recognize, so I picked up and it was her.

在我正要輕生的5到10秒前，我的電話響了。我看了一眼來(lái)電顯示，我不能帶著疑問死去。這是一個(gè)我不認(rèn)識(shí)的號(hào)碼，所以我接了電話，打電話的人正是她。

I asked her what was up and she said she just felt like she had to call me. At that point it had been a year since we had spoken, and at that moment she just had to call. Long story short, she pried, I spilled the beans and she talked me out of it. I mean she literally said “What? Don't do that.” And that was that.

我問她為什么打電話，而她說(shuō)，就是覺得自己應(yīng)該給我打電話。在那之前，我們已經(jīng)有一年沒有聯(lián)系過(guò)了，就在那一刻她必須要打這個(gè)電話。長(zhǎng)話短說(shuō)，她打聽了我的情況，我說(shuō)漏了嘴，然后她勸我不要自殺。我的意思是，她真的說(shuō)：“什么?不要那樣做。”僅此而已。

She made me promise to call her the next day, and we hung up. That night I started writing the words which, ten years later, I'd propose with.

她讓我承諾第二天給她打電話，然后我們掛斷了電話。那天晚上，我寫下了十年后我要求婚時(shí)說(shuō)的話。

"The comments have been unbelievably kind; most are congratulatory and uplifting."

“評(píng)論非常的友好，大部分是祝福和鼓勵(lì)的話。”

"There is power in saying it out loud. There's a good chance that the moment it comes out of your mouth you'll realize it isn't what you want at all," said Walsh.

“大聲說(shuō)出口會(huì)產(chǎn)生一種力量。當(dāng)你從嘴里說(shuō)出來(lái)時(shí)，你很有可能會(huì)意識(shí)到你根本不想這么做。”