人生不設(shè)限·無(wú)法控制恐懼，只會(huì)讓屁股更痛

小時(shí)候我有一種看起來(lái)很理所當(dāng)然的恐懼——我怕打針。每次學(xué)校說(shuō)要接種麻疹或流感疫苗時(shí)，我都會(huì)瞞著媽媽。有一部分理由是我身上能讓醫(yī)生下針的地方很有限，別的孩子可以打在手臂或屁股上，我這“短版”的身體只有一個(gè)選擇。但我的屁股離地面很近，所以就算醫(yī)護(hù)人員努力把針打在我屁股比較上面一點(diǎn)的地方，我還是覺(jué)得非常痛。打完針之后，我往往一整天都沒(méi)法走路。

When I was a kid, I had what seemed like a very natural fear, a fear of doctors with needles. Whenever I had to get my school vaccinations for measles and rubella or the flu, I'd hide from my mum. Part of the problem was that doctors had a limited number of places on my body where they could stick me. With other kids, they could do either arm or the butt. My abbreviated body offered only one target site, and since my bum sits very low to the ground, it was especially painful for me, even when they administered the shot high in my hip. Whenever I received a shot, I couldn't walk for a day.

因?yàn)樯眢w狀況的關(guān)系，我從小就像醫(yī)生們的靶子，我對(duì)打針產(chǎn)生很深的恐懼。我因?yàn)楣饪吹结樛簿突璧苟雒?/p>

Because of my disability, I'd spent a good part of my youth serving as a pincushion for doctors with needles, and I'd developed a very deep fear. I was known for fainting at the mere sight of a hypodermic and syringe.

小學(xué)時(shí)有一次，兩個(gè)顯然不知道我過(guò)去的紀(jì)錄，也不太了解人體解剖學(xué)的校護(hù)一人一邊地把我架在輪椅上，然后在我兩個(gè)肩頭各給了一針——我的肩膀可沒(méi)有太多肌肉和脂肪呀。那兩針簡(jiǎn)直把我痛死了，痛到我得請(qǐng)我的朋友杰瑞幫忙推輪椅，因?yàn)槲铱旎璧沽?。杰瑞推著推著，然后，我眼前一黑，果然在輪椅上昏了過(guò)去?？蓱z的杰瑞不知道該怎么辦，只能飛快地把我推到理科教室，請(qǐng)老師幫忙。

Once in grade school, two school nurses who apparently didn't know either my history or much about human anatomy came up on either side of me, pinned me between them in my wheelchair, and gave me shots in both shoulders—where there is very little muscle or fat. It was excruciating. The pain was so bad, I asked my friend Jerry to walk alongside me and steer my wheelchair because I felt faint. Jerry took control, and sure enough, I blacked out. Poor Jerry didn't know what to do, so he steered my wheelchair into our science class, with me hanging over the side, and asked the teacher for help.

媽媽知道我怕死打針了，所以她事先不會(huì)跟我和弟弟、妹妹說(shuō)我們?nèi)フ裔t(yī)生是為了打預(yù)防針。大約在我12歲時(shí)，我們有過(guò)一次可怕的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，后來(lái)成為我們家的傳奇故事。那天，媽媽說(shuō)要帶我們?nèi)プ鰧W(xué)校要求的“身體檢查”，坐在等候室時(shí)，我就覺(jué)得有點(diǎn)不對(duì)勁。我們看到一個(gè)年紀(jì)跟我差不多的小女孩走進(jìn)檢查區(qū)，接著傳來(lái)一陣慘叫，她挨了一針。

Knowing my great fear of needles, my mum didn't tell me or my brother or sister that we were headed to the doctor for our school inoculations. When I was about twelve years old, we had a wild visit that became part of family lore. Mum claimed we were just going in for our school "checkups." My first tip-off was in the waiting room. We'd seen this little girl about my age go into the examining area, and then we heard her screaming as she received her shot.

“你們聽(tīng)到了嗎?”我問(wèn)亞倫和蜜雪兒，“他們也會(huì)給我們打針了!”

"Did you hear that?" I asked Aaron and Michelle. "They are giving us the needle too!"

恐懼襲來(lái)，我陷入恐慌，大哭大叫，跟媽媽吵著說(shuō)我不要打針，太痛了，我要回家。因?yàn)槲沂悄抢锬昙o(jì)最大的孩子，于是其他更小的小朋友就學(xué)我這英勇又醒目的模樣，全都開(kāi)始鬼哭狼嚎，哀求著要回家。

My fear kicked in, and I went into a panic. I was crying and yelling, telling my mum that I didn't want to get a shot, that they hurt too much and I wanted to go home. Since I was the oldest child, the younger kids followed my brave and shining example. They too started caterwauling and begging to go home.

我們的護(hù)士媽媽當(dāng)然不為所動(dòng)，對(duì)付這種打針大戰(zhàn)，她可是老手了。她把我們這三個(gè)又哭又叫、拳打腳踢的家伙拽進(jìn)檢查室，就像憲兵把喝醉的大兵抓進(jìn)禁閉室一樣。

Our mother the nurse had no sympathy, of course. She was a veteran of the hypodermic wars. She hauled her howling and kicking and clawing pack into the examining room like a marine MP dragging drunken soldiers to the brig.

眼看恐慌和哀求完全無(wú)濟(jì)于事，我試著跟醫(yī)生商量：“你可不可以讓我換成用喝的?”邊講還邊嚎哭。

Seeing that sheer panic and pitiful begging was not working, I tried negotiation with the family physician. "Don't you just have something I can drink instead?" I bawled.

“恐怕不行哦，小朋友。”

"I'm afraid not, my son."

于是我決定采行B計(jì)劃，也就是弟弟(Brother)計(jì)劃，要老弟亞倫協(xié)助我脫逃。我已經(jīng)想好辦法了：亞倫先假裝從檢驗(yàn)臺(tái)上跌下去，分散醫(yī)生的注意力，同一時(shí)間，我?jiàn)^力蠕動(dòng)著跳下輪椅逃走。但是我被媽媽從中攔截，而小妹蜜雪兒那個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)主義者則趁亂飛快逃出。一位路過(guò)的護(hù)士在走廊逮到她，但蜜雪兒用力伸長(zhǎng)手腳卡住門(mén)口，所以他們沒(méi)辦法把她塞進(jìn)檢查室。她是我的英雄。

Time for Plan B, as in Brother. I turned to Aaron and asked him to help me escape. I had a getaway all planned out. Aaron was to distract the doctors by falling off the examining table so I could squirm out of my wheelchair and make a run for it. But mum intercepted me. Ever the opportunist, my little sister bolted for the door. A passing nurse grabbed her in the hallway, but then Michelle wedged her little arms and legs in the doorway so they couldn't get her into the examining room. She was my hero!

整間診所都聽(tīng)得到我們歇斯底里般的鬼哭狼嚎。醫(yī)護(hù)人員沖了進(jìn)來(lái)，因?yàn)槟锹曇袈?tīng)起來(lái)好像我們正被嚴(yán)刑拷打。不幸的是，增援部隊(duì)一看到那幅景象，馬上站到我們的敵方去。有兩個(gè)人用力夾住我，然后給了我一針，我像個(gè)妖怪一樣尖叫。

Our hysterical cries could be heard throughout the clinic. Staff came running because it sounded as though we were being brutally tortured. Unfortunately, the reinforcements quickly took the wrong side. Two of them pinned me down for an injection. I screamed like a banshee.

當(dāng)他們把針頭擠進(jìn)我的屁股時(shí)，我還是不停地扭來(lái)扭去，而因?yàn)槲乙恢眮y動(dòng)，所以已經(jīng)插進(jìn)去的針頭又被擠了出來(lái)。結(jié)果，醫(yī)生又得再打一次。我的尖叫聲大到讓停車場(chǎng)里的車子警報(bào)器都響了起來(lái)。

I kept squirming just as they went to jam the needle in my bum. I jerked around and forced the needle to go in and pop out again. So the doctor had to jam it in me again! My screams set off car alarms in the parking lot.

所有人——我們兄弟姊妹、媽媽跟醫(yī)護(hù)人員那天到底是怎么撐過(guò)去的，我不知道，我只記得我們?nèi)齻€(gè)小孩是一路大哭著回家的。

How any of us—my siblings, my mother, or the clinic staff—survived that day, I'll never know. The three of us wailed all the way home.

比起乖乖讓他們打針，我強(qiáng)烈的恐懼反而造成更大的痛苦。事實(shí)上，因?yàn)闆](méi)有控制好自己的恐懼，我的痛楚變成兩倍——那次打完針后，我有兩天不能走路，不止一天呢!

Because I was so afraid, my fears made the pain worse than it would have been if I'd just let them administer the shot. In fact, I doubled my pain because I did not manage my fear. I couldn't walk for two days instead of just one!